Neurodivergent Affirming Couples and Relationship Therapy

Offering Online Therapy in Oregon & Limited In-Person Therapy in SE Portland, OR

Couple practicing relational mindfulness

For ADHD, autistic, AuDHD, and mixed-neurotype couples and relationships.

You love each other. You also keep ending up in the same place: one of you feels unheard, the other feels like they can never get it right, and both of you are tired. When one or both partners are neurodivergent, the usual couples advice often misses, because it was built for brains that work differently than yours.

Here, you won't have to explain your wiring before we can get to work. We'll look at the patterns that have grown up around it, and build a relationship that fits how both of you actually function.

You are not too much

Maybe you're here because:

  • You have the same fight about chores, follow-through, or forgotten plans, and it never feels resolved.

  • One of you has become the manager of the relationship, and the other feels like a constant disappointment.

  • Shutdowns, meltdowns, or needing space get read as not caring.

  • Sensory needs are shaping touch, sex, or how much closeness feels good, and it's hard to talk about.

  • One of you was recently diagnosed, and you're both rethinking years of misunderstandings.

  • You communicate differently: one of you is direct and literal, the other reads between the lines.

  • Time, calendars, and logistics are a constant source of stress, especially with more than one partner.

  • Masking all day leaves nothing left for the person you come home to.

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